Passover
celebrates the ancient Hebrews’ deliverance from slavery in Egypt, as told in
Exodus. During Passover, Jewish families
and friends gather for the Seder meal and service. We give thanks, perform certain rituals and
recount the Exodus story.
It is the
responsibility of each generation to pass this story on to the next, and it has
been happening for thousands of years.
The Last Supper of Jesus, for example, was a Seder.
Passover
happens in the spring and we haven’t fully celebrated it recently because we’ve been
in France. We weren’t confident enough
in our language skills to pull off a French Seder. This
year we thought we should try.
We figured
we could just use a French Haggadah, the booklet you use to guide you through the
Seder. But that didn't work because not all Haggadahs are alike.
Yes, the basic story and prayers are the same but the details can vary
depending on how conservative or liberal you are, whether you come from the Sephardic
or Ashkenazi tradition, what country you live in, etc.
The
result is strong differences of opinion, and this from a people known for being
opinionated. As the old joke goes, if
you have two Jews, you have three opinions.
So
when we found French Haggadahs, they were much more conservative than we
wanted. And the prayers were written
only in Hebrew, without the phonetic transliterations we need to read them aloud.
This
led to a project - constructing our own Haggadah. How hard could that be? Not so hard, right? Silly us.
What it meant was taking the segments of the French
Haggadahs that we were ok with, then translating other parts of our favorite English
Haggadah into French, then getting phonetic transliterations of the Hebrew prayers, then stitching all that together and hoping it was right.
Oy vey!
I think we should get extra credit on this one.
Last
night was the test drive. We invited our
“French family” to join us – Sara, Christian, Monique and James, plus
Christian’s visiting grandson Mathias. I was nervous because I was leading the service.
We
encouraged our guests to ask questions and to debate, in the best Jewish (and
French) traditions, and the whole evening was quite animated. Of course, the traditional four glasses of
wine might have helped. There was a lot
of discussion about the similarities and differences of major world religions –
Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism – and the role that religion and
spirituality can play in our lives.
Val did
a great job with the meal but had trouble with the traditional Ashkenazi dish
of brisket. It turns out they cut cows up differently in France and brisket
doesn’t exist here. Who knew? So she went instead with a Sephardic lamb
dish, full of nuts and dried fruits and spices, which was absolutely
delicious.
I think we may have eaten our
last brisket.
And
while everyone else had to suffer through eating Matza, the unleavened (and dry,
and tasteless) bread one eats during Passover, it is made of wheat so I was
excused. Yet another advantage of a
gluten-free diet!
The
only off note was with the Afikomen, the special piece of Matza that you hide. Near the
end of the service the children hunt for the Afikomen and whoever finds it gets
a prize.
When we got to the Afikomen part I didn't hide it right away, instead setting it on the chair next to me while
I continued the service. Bad idea.
A few minutes later I heard a crunching
sound. I looked down and there was Mica,
happily finishing off the last bits of Afikomen. Merde !
Maybe she figured that because she’s the youngest it was her job to find it.
I
wasn’t sure what to do because an Afikomen is needed to finish the Seder. And there were no rabbinic authorities to
consult. So I made an emergency decision
and made a new Afikomen. I am hoping
that God does not strike me down!
KVS
Looking Good
The Seder Plate
Ready to Go!